After seeking answers from spiritual guides, church, praying, counseling, etc. All I want is to hug this girl and get to know her. Jan 28, 2019 News that keeps on giving by: Anonymous I found out about 2 years ago at the age of 49 that my father is not my biological father. One of our most experienced researchers rang the number and he answered the phone. My name is Michael Dale,born Jan 17, 1973. After reading a few of them, no doubt you understand that this is a very difficult thing to go through. When I was in 2nd grade, she began dating this man who proposed to her-but it was eventually called off.
He too was married with a family and a disabled wife. I collected blood stained gauze from every doctor appt from said 'core dump', forward. And everyone I turn to ask about him, they say it's not my position to say anything. For me, I'll always be my daddy's little girl, no matter whose biological material i have. You owe them the truth.
Looking back now, I wonder what my mother was thinking when he said that. Thanks so much for sharing. All of my cousins speak so lovingly of their grandparents, but I am the only one who never met them. If they have a father figure in their life with some decency, you will have offered this 5 year old the ability to choose. It was absolutely incredible to find him, and I thank all who read my message and those who looked for him, and I thank God for getting them connected.
That anti-depressants, and anxiety medication. I think any forum that supports people going through this shocking revelation would be very helpful. Tried everything to find them and hoping someone knows them they were in ma last time I saw them. He may never have known that you existed. It was from a complete stranger, that just happened to be the biological Dad no one had told me about. Maybe this was her way, whether consciously or not, of letting you know. My advise to you is do not hide your feelings and live the life you want, your parents, if they love you, will want you happy no matter what happens.
Completely frustrated and almost at a loss for hope, I stumbled across The Seeker; I figured one more ad wouldn't hurt. Also, since there is an unknkw woman mentioned and possibly foul play being considered, what did the handwriting look like?? Many people were having illegal sex one night stand back in the 1980s and 90s, and because of this many children were born without knowing their father. After 27 years I finally found my birth father. A few days passed and an E-mail came to me from a search angel with lots of name matches so I browsed through them and decided to start calling the matches. My dad's death was sudden-he was only 55. I want to thank you for all your help, because with your help I was able to find link that led here and there and finally to my daughter.
Another possibility is to include a middle name, which will narrow results considerably. That honor belonged to my Godfather. I have a different skin tone. Has anyone here been in this situation, or helped a child find their fathers? Also, I'm sorry for the awful situation you're in. I don't want to lose my brother so I have not told him yet. She says it was a one night stand and he didn't want anything to do with me.
I wish I had a clearer understanding of this when I was younger. Write them down or record them if you can. I called the phone number to confirm and am happy to tell you that my newly found brother and I have called each other every day for 2 weeks straight! I was shorter stocky build with brown hair and blue eyes. He will then have the option to grieve and heal. If That being said, I believe that you would be doing the absolute best option for that 5 year old. If a woman has sex with more than one man within a month's time, she can't possibly be 'certain' who the biological father is.
So, just give yourself all the time and self love that you can. I'm following up to state, after reading most of these comments here, I have tdecided a way to tell the child. I think it would be so valuable for them to read this. We can each do what we want with this information. You can also find YouTube videos to help with this. Three weeks later Deborah made a visit and we had a wonderful time. Ive always been closer to them so it's strange to reach out to other people.
I will keep in touch with everyone again. Go back to our main page. Not having those practical matters to worry about makes the emotional trauma that much more daunting. He has disability checks, but those have been going direct deposit into his debit card regularly still. Existing database searches on both sites are free. Her loyalties would be to him.
Does your husband know yet? Our advanced search algorithms, applied on an increasingly large database, give you the best shot at finding your father. Although i don't have a medical condition or anything. How will you ever live with the knowledge that your son will someday grow up, find out, and be absolutely decimated like the rest of us on this blog? Wait 5 - 10 minutes then go back to the site and you should find you have access and be logged in. ~ ~ Born: Baby Girl Rice 9. It probably seems like the answer is easy to come by, and I know what must be done, but this has been and is laying heavy on my heart and soul. Begin With a Direct Search Begin by entering your father's name directly into your browser's search bar.