According to relationship experts, here are the 6 most common reasons we stay with men who are all wrong for us: 1. Not all these dudes will pony up to ride into the sunset with you. A loser will openly criticise and embarrass you in public. They see how dating this guy has changed you into a shadow of your former self. He also has a penchant for lying, albeit badly at times. Is it possible that a guy could become so enraged that he hits a woman once or twice but not repeatedly? Excessive and repeated verbal abuse is horrible. Now, young people mostly make their own decisions about a mate and marriage without consulting their fathers, mothers and grandparents.
Walk at my side dude or shew! I guess love is blind, but it hurts when I see an intelligent woman have such an idiotic boyfriend. This point combined with a guy who has too many facial products go hand-in-hand. Can he not be sympathetic to your needs and wants? He is unable to manage his money and often has significant debts. A man is known by the company he keeps. More often than not, a loser is living on credit. The fact is that this is a choice that stems directly from positive attitude. The worst and most eye opening experience of my life.
The offender: The guy whose life is just a mess. As women, we get approached by them daily. I'm afraid that if you have any kind of touch with reality you will see the core value of human beings is to serve as a vessel to further the existence of the genes which created them. You have to get rid of him quick! Losers are the type of men who refuse to grow up and take responsibility for their own actions. Why waste your time making plans for the future, if he has no intention of following them through? So, here are 10 ways that women can know that their guy is a loser: 1 you work significantly harder than him.
Oh boy, this is getting interesting. This sends you into a tailspin and sets you off on a roller coaster of emotions. He loves me, he loves me not. At this point, you need to walk away, regardless of any tearful apologies that he may make. Dating a loser can result in months, if not years of frustration, confusion, tears and tantrums. He Tosses You Crumbs One night he may stand you up completely, then text you the next day happily, like nothing happened.
There is no getting around that one. Does he talk during a movie or answer his cell phone in the library? However, if you are ready to face reality, deal with some harsh generalizations. Wika linked to this site. However as you get older and your relationships become more serious, you want to know that there is the potential there for it to become something permanent. The guy does not have to be perfect all the time, but when he knows he will go out on a date with you, he has to show some effort. My family made me do it. I have helped thousands of people change their dating life through my blogs, classes and my one on one date coaching sessions.
The only reason a man would ever talk badly about you or belittle you to someone else is for his own ego boost. Also, this list is only meant for heterosexual women. Believe it or not most people know they can do better in terms of finding a better life partner. I could tell that this was one of those classical self-delusional guys who makes himself feel important by demeaning others. He denies and stuffs his emotions. He wants to occupy all your free time and spend every free moment with him.
There are no extraordinary circumstances that condones pointing any object of danger knife, gun, bottle, chainsaw, etc at a female. The fact that the marriage lasted four years is a testament to how wonderful my friend is. And the truth is that on rare occasions people lose complete control and do absolutely and ridiculously stupid things. Slowly, but surely, he will begin to milk you for all you are worth. By morning, I knew the relationship was a non-starter.
The grave danger in doing this, is that their views are usually far more objective than yours. However, the warning signs are easy to spot. Ladies, do you remember how I told you that sometimes there are extraordinary circumstances which can give someone a free pass to hit another person? If so, that will be how he treats you once the honeymoon phase is over. If he does not have any measurable goals, dreams or aspirations of wanting more in life. He also has a great sense of entitlement which means that he spends way beyond his means.