The main reason being his daughter. Just a few hours earlier, he was texting me how much he loved and missed me. I got the feeling she was not really concerned with what he was doing. His daughter suffers from the same personality disorder which adds to the constant strain and chaos between us. First off, a good marriage cannot be ruined by a homewrecker, period. You will not come out on top.
It was only when I threatened to go to her family and tell them what she was like, that she admitted anything…. Is it because you were unable to fulfill some voids in his life? Maybe you actually did the guy a favor by cheating with him……. Your child is old enough to be away from his or her mom for a few hours, or even a weekend to spend time and catch up with newly found siblings. I just know he and I are very compatible and we understand each other. Yes there is plenty of heartache involved with being the other woman. My married guy was a colleague and a good friend. Seems it should be directed at the one who is truly causing the grief in your life.
Failing that, it is time to accept responsibility and accountability and do what is best for each individual involved. When in a relationship with a married man, we need to realize that we are the other woman. She said she cooks for him,washes his bedspread. I am confident enough to say that I deserve someone who wants the same things that I want. He knows things about me that only a partner would know.
At the end of the day — he goes home, gets fed, burped, and has clean clothes on his back. I do not trust my spouse completely and never will, but things are good and I am now glad I stayed. Trust me, I had 2 kids under the age of 4 when I was divorced and I had to pretty much raise them alone. She found out about me and now she is wife and lover of the year. My daughter is an innocent victim.
It makes you feel omnipotent. We planned my vacation around coming to his town and July 4th I drove there and we ended up spending 7 days in Heaven together. They have been married over 20 years. But I did not tell him what he should do, he is a grown ass man, you would think he would be able to figure it out for himself. She made a choice and she knew what the outcome could be.
You want the best of a man and you send him home to be ugly and hateful to his wife. My hubby who is the cheater travels a lot and because of this incident I have thought a lot about what he may have done all of the times her has been out of time for months at a time. She is still in hot pursuit of him even now. I loved him, but as the years were going by, I no longer felt satisfied with the part time deal. Talk about an avalanche of emotions! All this time, and I never meant a frigging thing? I feel very inept at trying to help you because all I can do is type words. I have seen the hurt and honestly, I would not choose this for anyone. Thing is this time I am deeply hurt.
Of course no parent or family would approve affair with a married man. Talk about a role reversal. We first met when I was 10 years old and he was 12. One door should be closed before another is opened. On a different note, we have a new topic up at the forum ladies. And pictures she sent him via e-mail to our computer of herself kissing a heavyset woman and pictures of her, shall we say, lower extremeties?!. Then what happens if you have his children? Thank you…what you say does make perfect sense.
Instead of some of these men growing a set of balls and either going to counseling and working on their marriages or getting divorces and dating the right damn way they will go out and cheat or feed younger gals a line. Do you know for sure if they have been intimate or is it just strictly a platonic fucked up relationship? They are like train tracks. Relationships with married or otherwise attached men can work, but we, as their women, need to accept the limitations of the relationship. I would like to express my hurt of him deceiving me and to find out if he is married, separated, in a domestic partnership living together, if he is in an open relationship, and if he is planning on leaving her for me. Or are there others to blame too? Stop waiting for your husbands to make you happy. It lasted about 6 months and my husband discovered it and confronted me on it.