Will the next guy who has a relationship with you be left high and dry? Now that may hurt for you to hear, but it's a fact of life. Ala the male lion killing Cubs and reimpregnatimg the females…. I'm just saying that overall. The narrator speaks on different aspects of single mothers, not just of them looking for money. I got the keys to her house like a live in boyfriend. I am a single mum and decided to have and raise my child alone as a race against my biological clock.
Sometimes the extra baggage is absoultely God sent. Also, even if she was stupid in the past. I think men tend to be hesitant about single moms. Even if I wasn't married, I wouldn't be dating men. I actually agree with Evan though. I have a university degree, work full-time at a well paying job with great benefits, I own a home, have a pension, investments, my vehicle is paid off, and I refused child support from my ex. Poor thing has already had to do that.
So that's totally cool if I make her lower on the list than tennis, or golf, or football, or video games? You can't convince me that your position is correct. I couldn't have written a better post! So the upside for me? Painting all single mothers as gold-diggers, psychos, and manipulative is ridiculous. Being a single parent of either gender is tough. We can all be blindsided by crazy, usually because we have big hearts and unusual chemistry with someone not well suited to us. Single, childless guys, save yourself the hastle, time, money, anger and gray hairs.
Hey good job man using the chick for sex, then dumping her for something better when the time is right. If people keep this up I'll be closing this topic. They just want to fuck and have kids at a later age. You don't have to go down the road to single motherhood. Now I can be friends with single mothers and I have been fuck buddies with a few.
My best advice would be to stop dating and focus on giving your undivided attention to your children. He will not understand that many single moms are used to having to provide for themselves and their children. I mean foreigner left on the hook for a local's actions. And now, a very cute, single blond that lives on my floor was flirting with me in a major way last night. It isn't just that most relationships end, it's that a guy who gets with a single mom is likely to lose a whole lot more when - most likey - the single mom ends the relationship. The last two comments pretty much prove my point. Blended families break up at a rate of over 75% according to what I've read.
I tell guys my age all the time take care of your responsibilities the mother and child. This truly is a difficult decision to make. This is what women don't understand. Sometimes, I wonder if these ratchets keep account of what comes out of their mouths. Honestly, I find it rather difficult to find a man who has can measure up to what my ex and I have achieved collectively as well as independently.
It breaks my heart that my children do not have the love and devotion of two parents. So why its best to stay single for as long as you can and date and not rush into marriage. She will start asking more and more of you. For many guys, their standards include not dating single mothers. And why are you attacking me with ad-hominem attacks? Anonymous Let me give you a frank male perspective. How many men adore their nieces and nephews? My life is pretty cool.
Men at these young ages don't want to settle down with a family at such a young age. The likes of which you will never have. Is this what you saved yourself for, worked so hard for and pictured your family to be growing up? Maybe he was a decent hard working man, a good father and provider. As a 24 year old, I do have a problem with young single moms. Dealing with your character issues is what I consider bottom feeding. Otherwise I can swear to you, that it is going to hurt you more than it will hurt her.