For editing or writing help, write me at or visit expertediting. Unconventional Questions That Will Help You Get To Know Someone 163. What would constitute a perfect day for you? In our busy lives, we seldom hear that inner voice of ours. If you came over, and I was in a terrible mood and not really up for conversation, what would you do? Do you chew your pens and pencils? Tell me a really, really stupid joke that made you laugh. What's the worst you've ever been physically hurt? These questions are serious, and not casual in nature. Have you often felt so alone though amongst crowd, and why? Like life, the answers are ever changing. Reason: who knows, maybe one day you do get to travel the world together, so why not start the planning? What was the best phase in your life? Who was the last person to make you cry? What if there would be no consequences? What emotion do you feel you experience the most? If You Set off to Any Place on Earth, Where Would It Be and Why? Tell me about the time you were so embarrassed in love, you wished you could disappear right there and then.
What was your most embarrassing memory? We can hear it, telling us things which we conveniently forget. Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid? What do you want to do before you die? Find a guy who wants to get to know you on every level possible. What fictional character do you most relate to? You only see the true nature of people when you give them power. I never called her again. Or are you practically family? I am not trying to start a fight here, but you likely are over whatever that situation may have been anyway. You can only pick one! If you could be President of your country for an hour, what is the one thing that you would change? Do you have any magazine subscriptions? Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen. Do you have a favorite book? If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
I go with the name Mr Harris not sebastian. What size is your bed? You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. How would you describe your best friend? By the way, right answer to question 27 does exist. These questions are great for friends you know well or girlfriends who like serious conversations. Are you a spiritual person? Describe your best first kiss. What Is the Last Book That You Have Finished Reading? When I tested this question on dates with girls, I could observe the same effect.
We all tend to put up a good front when we are in pain and reeling over a bad breakup. Sharing this deep question with your best friend will guide you into the future together. Before you head out one day, your S. There are so many girls out there who have severe father issues and who start to hiss as soon as you mention the name of their daddy. If you meet a special girl who is really important to you, you want to be able to dig deeper than that.
Have you ever cried tears of joy? Tell me your biggest strength outside of your workplace. If past lives are real, what was yours? What it teaches is that the real strength you need to find, ultimately rests within you alone. Have you ever felt so helpless that but yet were to proud to ask for help 15. What lies do you most often tell yourself? This can be in the form of intuition, or for some, it is connecting with the supreme. A follow-up question to the last is one we all consider. Though we've known each other for years, though we live together, though we spend all day texting and all night gabbing, there's still plenty we don't know about each other. The one that stood out most was the question of which family member's death would disturb you most.
Who do you think he or she would call? Do you want to have kids one day? What is your most hated chore and why? On the other hand, there are the ones who want to help people with their money and who want to use their fame to promote good and valuable projects. I might drop from exhaustion after question 4. And what started out as a few failed attempts to guess Hilary Clinton and a hair elastic, we decided to play a new kind of 20 questions; we asked each other personal questions. When did you last cry in front of another person? What's the best present you ever received? If I was going to repaint my living room, and I showed you a sample of a color — and you hated it — would you tell me? Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Best friends are truly meant forever. Thanks man Hey Ryan, thanks for your feedback. Reason: sometimes you just need an extra reason to say something nice about each other.
Is there anything you can do to help? The most fascinating thing about a best friend is that they usually last for a long time. It helps you two bond and can make a huge difference in the way you see one another. How do you think people see you? The title says deep questions to ask a girl, but really they can be for guys as well. Best room for a fireplace? How close and warm is your family? What are you most insecure about? How many languages can you speak? When God's time comes, and he takes my life's love away, I would not know what to say. Anything I think I should be cautious about? If one song were to describe your life, what song would it be? When have you felt like you were living life to the fullest? If she really likes you, or if she pretends to like you before she tries to stab you with her eyeliner pencil, she will say that she wants to be here with you and nowhere else.
Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you're going to say? If you were given the opportunity to meet new friends and excuse the old ones, would you take it 16. Reason: gives you an insight into what your friend really likes and why. Where have you felt the most failure? When you build a relationship with your best friend, you want to know everything about the person so that you share an unbeatable and incomparable connection. Do you always smile for pictures? You don't really believe your interlocutor is going to stop after 36, do you? If they have given you a way to delve deeper into yourself, your relationship, or your life in general, go ahead and use them to know yourself and those around you, better. Are you more into looks or brains? Be it guy friends or girl friends. I have had phenomenal responses from students who took the questions seriously. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? What was the last concert you saw? And when your best friend is involved, there is really no limit.
Sounds like very good advice, those questions can tell a lot. Their answers might indeed bring you face-to-face with some things. How many times have you done something you ordinarily will not do in a bid to make someone love you and what 13. What would go through your head while you were being told all this, and would you go? Reason: can you name those things yourself? Do you judge a book by its cover? Everyone has certain values that he or she lives by, even if they only exist in our unconsciousness. Who is your greatest hero? What show do they prefer watching now? I think that questions like these can make our time together much more interesting and memorable, and people don't always have great conversational skills these days to rely on. One of those deep questions to ask your best friend that can be quite sad is this one.